Wednesday, September 30, 2009

September 11th - On the Road Again


Carolina’s Notes
Today we woke up and headed for fresh baked Carmel Rolls at Stonewalls about 5 miles from the campground; they were delicious and yes not on our clean eating menu plan. Tony was thinking about these rolls for a day and a half and realized he had to try them. Since I’m his partner in crime I had to partake.

We have to wait for our mail from Heather to arrive so I’m going to take time to perform extra grooming tasks. Not always easy for me in my compact shower. I’m 5’9 and a half and I have to sometimes use Yoga moves just to take a shower washing the necessary parts. Well anyway it isn’t a spa but I’ll feel more like a pretty lady than a ‘Tom Boy.’

Tony’s Notes
We had been in the Black Hills for a little better than a week, and it was time to move on. Like Carolina stated, we were waiting for our first mail from home to arrive before we could leave. Our mail forwarding service, my daughter Heather, had sent our first package that contained about two weeks worth of mail. It arrived by 2pm, and we finished packing up, hooking up the car to the motorhome, and we were off on I90 heading for Wyoming.

September 10th - Relaxing




Carolina’s Notes
Today was a day to rest from yesterday’s excursion to the Black Hills and Custer State Park. Tony and I did paperwork. I made some notes detailing our journey and he prepped our next destination and finances. We ate cereal in Harry (our RV – 2006 Hurricane); this was special because Tony & I have been eating out much more than our original plan and budget allows. Time passed and before we realized it was afternoon already. Tony fixed a berry smoothie for us; he was trying to use some of the fruit we picked up along the way. Then we decided to utilize the campground pool and hot tub. This was nice but we had unexpected guests in the pool…bugs. These critters flew in because it is an outdoor pool so it is bound to happen. These BIG beetles, bees, etc. were not familiar to this Suburbanite from Detroit so we cut the swimming short. We went into town to do laundry and pick up some groceries because we really need to stop spending SO much money eating out.

Tonight we plan on eating in and packing to venture out back on the road toward Wyoming.

Tony’s Notes
It was actually nice to sit back and relax after all the driving and site seeing the day before. Since August 1st I felt like I had been going non-stop. After leaving on August 27th, we had been having rainy weather following us, visiting family, and then motoring cross country and site seeing. So, it was nice to reflect on the goals of this journey. However, it is quite difficult to not be a vacation. There are so many things to see and you just cannot see them all unless you stay a while in one regional area.

My focus had been to get to the west coast and then slowly head down the Pacific coast. I had concerns about the fall weather coming and did not want to be driving through Rocky Mountains passages with any snow on the ground. It would be one thing with a car, but driving a 35 foot motorhome, and add on a tow bar, car, and bike rack it is a bit different. Overall, I am driving almost fifty feet behind me. Also, being that my motorhome has a gas engine; it does not have quite the same torque as a diesel engine would have.

While we were in the Rapid City area, it was also nice to take a bicycle ride in the city area. We were riding around Canyon Lake Park and it brought back a lot of memories from 1978 and 1979. I had picnicked there often and would go swimming with Brandy. Brandy, my oldest daughter, was only one years old. I use to jump in the water holding her, and slide down the waterfall. Sounds kind of crazy. Now, the water area and waterfall was fenced off with signs that said ‘No Swimming’. I was not surprised.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

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September 4th to September 9th







Carolina’s Notes
September 4, 2009 Travel day from IL through Iowa. Iowa was nice for me because I enjoyed soaking in farmland scenery; the corn crops were as far as the eye could see. I enjoyed it immensely. Things still tense between Tony & I from the rocky start. We decided to bunk in the town of Chamberlain, South Dakota off the Missouri River for a night. It was time well spent. Next morning we had to vacate because there was no lodging for us to stay.

September 5, 2009 making it to the Badlands, Tony & I spent time touring the Badlands of SD and it started off to be a great trip but then a traffic sign notifying tourists of a hill approaching put my ‘Fear of Heights’ into MELTDOWN. It wasn’t a pretty sight. Tony maintained driving Harry to a safe parking spot for me to get my wits back. Honestly, I don’t know how Tony got Harry safely down because he knew I wasn’t doing well and he had to keep focus on driving. Once we got to a visitors spot Tony tried to console me but sometimes men really are from Mars. Well anyway we decided to go and check out the visitor’s center to find out about the Badlands. Now I was ready to get the H--L OUT! Tony reasoned that if I let this spoil the rest of my day that I would regret it. I couldn’t argue with that logic so I persevered forward. It was rough on Tony & me but we continued to enjoy what we could of the Badlands of SD. Trust me both Tony & I know why this territory is named as such. Once Tony had had enough of me, he decided to bed down in Wall for the night. We stayed not to far away from Wall Drug so we chose to see Wall Drug and to get food and drink. We proceeded to the nearest watering hole and food. I couldn’t order a shot of Jack Daniels quick enough. Thank you Jack!! Seriously folks my nerves were gone; it was do a shot or call the guys in white coats. I made the right call. Thanks again Jack! By the way, Tony & I walked so neither of us drove after consuming cocktails.

Next morning onward to our destination Rapid City, SD for sight seeing which includes Mt. Rushmore and Custer State Park. The first stop was the Air and Space Museum because it was close to the Air Force Base where Tony was stationed in his previous life. I am sorry to report things are still tense for Tony & me because of the heights and bickering. See life happens NO matter where you go. Then Tony wanted us to get settled into our next campground, which is Rushmore Shadows. After settling in, we took in a western dinner show up the street at Ft. Hays Chuck Wagon Suppers and that was SO much fun! It happens to be where a scene from ‘Dances with Wolves’ was filmed. It was the scene when Kevin Costner gets his orders to go to his post in South Dakota. It was a really neat place to visit! Then after the show we came home and lights out.

September 7, 2009 at our camp sight the next morning, we had turkeys roaming around Harry and our site. This was a sight I had never seen. It was another neat experience. We went into town explored, picked up some Dramamine, and did our laundry. Dramamine was an attempt to curb some of my symptoms with my ‘Fear of Heights.’ During our exploration into Rapid City we did a bike ride that took us into Canyon Lake Park, which was a great excursion. Tony & I haven’t done enough bike riding due to my height issue. In the evening, we went to Mt. Rushmore for the Labor Day lighting ceremony. We started at Ruby’s House in Keystone, SD. Ruby’s food and atmosphere was great. It started the evening off on the right foot. Mt. Rushmore was a terrific experience despite my nervousness with heights. The pills and Tony’s motion sickness bands helped. I was so happy I was able to experience Mt. Rushmore in person.

September 8, 2009 we toured Reptile Gardens. This was a place dedicated to reptiles. This was also a neat place. Today was another day to lay low and try to rest. We’ve really been on the move and the month of August trying to get ready was catching up to us. Thus far despite all the height hiccups and bickering I’ve had the best time of my life.

September 9, 2009 was the day we play in Custer State Park and the Black Hills. I was having a great day until we listened to a tour guide to go up a dirt hill for a 360 view of the Black Hills (Mt. Coolidge). This was a mistake because we had NO clue of what we were in for. This was NOT a road to travel when you are afraid of heights. Mt. Coolidge was not a must see for me. It was Defcon 5 for a person who is afraid of heights. The Dramamine and wrist braces did nothing to help me. I was so mad at Tony for leaving the camera in car that I could have strangled him. So I yelled for him to get the camera since he put me through this H—L. I wish he had clicked a picture of me by the car so I can prove I did go up to the top of the world. The rest of the trip through the park and home was trying to say the least. Once in a stable place for me, Tony & I proceeded to Gas Light restaurant. I couldn’t even wait for a hostess. I asked a bus person to get me a shot of Jack Daniels. Thanks again Jack! Mt. Coolidge was the worst yet. Holy Cow Bat Man what’s next? Stay tuned and find out.

Tony’s Notes
Well, like Carolina stated, we moved on from Moline on September 3rd, and drove all day through Iowa. It really was a pretty drive; it was all corn and beans as far as the eye could see, just like Carolina said in her notes. As we got up toward the corner of Iowa, before crossing into South Dakota, we pulled into an RV Park off the highway. We probably could have slept in a Rest Area; however, a full hookup that included Cable TV and Free Wi-Fi sounded good after driving a good part of the day. It was just a road side RV park, and we got hooked up. The thing is, is that we walked over to a local restaurant and had fried chicken and two pitchers of beer. Then, while walking home to Harry, we stopped and picked up a couple small Chocolate Extreme Blizzards from Dairy Queen. This was more of a vacation so far, and not inline with meeting the requirements of our sabbatical. We are supposed to be eating our own prepared food and ensure healthier eating.

The next morning, we headed out and got into South Dakota coming up through Sioux Falls. We probably should have stopped and walked around a bit along the Missouri River in town, but Harry kept on moving. Once we got up to I90, we headed west. At about 5pm’ish, we pulled into the town of Chamberlain, and found a very nice RV resort right along the Missouri River. It was Labor Day weekend, and we were lucky to get a nice full hookup for one night. I do believe that had they had the availability, we might have stayed an extra day. They had a nice paved bicycle trail along the river. It was a very pretty location, and we had dinner at the restaurant on the water; fresh Whitefish and two pitchers of beer. So far, we were spending like we were still employed versus a couple voluntarily unemployed forty something’s.

So, the on Saturday, September 5th, we got up and went for a swim in the indoor pool and spa at the RV Resort. We packed up and headed west. We actually drove several hours toward the badlands. I noticed as we were getting off of I90 and heading toward the entrance to the Badlands National Park, that there was a National Parks museum for the Minuteman Missile system.

The Minuteman Missile mission was something our government put together starting in the late 50’s and / or into the early 1960’s. It comprised the states of North Dakota, South Dakota, and Wyoming. They had built about 150 missile silos, and about 15 launch control facilities that were spread over the three states. The Minuteman Missile was an ICBM (Inter Continental Ballistic Missile) that would basically get shot into space, orbit the earth and ‘drop’ four nuclear bombs targeted for different locations. This was something that “protected” us during the Cold War. We had built the ability to execute a full nuclear strike against the USSR by Land, Sea, and Air. This was Strategic Air Commands Triad system.

During my short enlistment in the United States Air Force back in early 1978 through late 1980, I was stationed at Ellsworth Air Force Base in Rapid City, South Dakota. I worked at the Launch Control Facilities supporting the Minuteman Missile mission. So, when I saw they had erected a museum, I had to stop and check things out. As it turns out, they had made the Delta LCF (Launch Control Facility) a museum; that was the one an NPS ranger would tour people through. Delta LCF was the facility I worked at, so for me it was very nostalgic and reminiscing was cool. I had forgotten that period of my life.

Back then, I thought life was horrible. The military controlled my life, and I was not that happy about it. Of course, back then, my first wife and I were teenage parents, and things were rough, from our perspective. Today, I can look back and see that I had it made in many ways. For example, I had base housing that made my living expenses cheap. My schedule was what they called “Three ON and Three Off”. I basically was gone on the missile sites three days and home for three days. How many of us today would love to work three days and have three days off consistently. In fact, most of us would be happy to work four days and have a three day weekend every weekend. But anyway, I was too young to know any better.

After reminiscing for a while, we headed into the Badlands. I had never actually driven through the badlands, and was amazed. It is a very cool place, and I would have liked to take some time to hike through the many trails. Some people hike into the trail’s, and pitch a tent out in the middle of no where, and then hike out the next day. I can only imagine the solitude, and stars they see late in the middle of the night.

However, we drove through about forty miles of the Badlands around the scenic loop back to I90. We stopped, did short hikes, took lots of pictures, and were very exhausted by the end of the day. It was almost dusk when we drove out of the Badlands and found ourselves in the town of Wall; like Carolina said in her notes. We hooked up at a local RV Park, and headed into town, ate a couple burgers (Mine was Buffalo), drank a couple of pitchers of beer, and each did about three shots of Jack Daniels. We were definitely not meeting the requirements of the Sabbatical project plan. We never drink like that, and almost never drink liquor-period.

It was a great day, despite Carolina’s panic attack. She was doing just fine until we made a turn that lead to a huge drop off view to the left that she was just not prepared for and it shocked her. She really did not recover until she did the shot of Jack Daniels.

The next day, we went into Wall Drug and had some homemade fresh donuts. They were OK, but not like the kind you get at an apple orchard, in the fall, back in Michigan. After we ate the donuts, we saw some awesome looking caramel glazed cinnamon rolls come out of the bake shop; it was then that we realized we had missed out on what that bakeshop did best. Unfortunately, we were still vacationing and not sticking to healthy clean eating.

We headed westward toward Rapid City. I had to get off the highway near Ellsworth AFB and see if the old base housing was still there. It had been torn down and new housing was built a little further in the base. Where our housing had been, there was a military RV Park. I probably could have stayed there for next to free, but I wanted to be more up in the Black Hills. Anyway, they had an Air Force Museum that we checked out, and I looked around, reminisced, and then moved on. I am pretty sure I was annoying or grating on Carolina’s nerves.

We passed through or around the city, and headed up the road toward Mount Rushmore. I noticed there was an RV Resort that would give us three nights for the price of less than one, if we sat through a sales presentation. So I took them up on it and we hooked up at Rushmore Shadows. It was a nice full hookup with Cable TV and Wi-Fi. The next morning we sat through the 90 minute presentation that actually took three hours. I did NOT buy a membership for $9,000. I did not buy anything. However, we did end up staying there at Rushmore Shadows from Sunday, September 6th to Friday the 11th.

Like Carolina had stated, we went into town to use a Laundromat. It was very interesting because the Laundromat was also a coffee shop and tanning salon. They had free detergent, they sold espresso and latte’s; tanning beds to use, and they even sold you the use of a shower facility with shampoo and a blow dryer for only $7.95. I never saw anything like that before. If I ever decide to bicycle and backpack across the United States, I will stop here for a shower.

The Chuck Wagon Dinner Show that Carolina mentioned in her notes was fabulous. For $20 each, we had a huge meal of beef brisket, potatoes, beans, apple sauce, and lemonade. They called the lemonade ‘tender foot’ juice, but the alternative was ‘cowboy coffee’ and it was terrible. Plus, I do not drink coffee in the evening. The show was great. They played a full assortment of music. I love listening to a band with a fiddle and banjo.

Mount Rushmore was great, and it was special going on a holiday. I was quite surprised that there were trails that went up pretty close to where you were looking straight up. We took hundreds of photos at both the national monument and in Keystone. Ruby’s House was an original old saloon with all the antiquities. We were in beef country and for next couple of weeks we were on red meat overload.

I had been to reptile gardens many years ago when Brandy was a little girl, back in my military days. However, I enjoyed the experience, and I know Carolina and I were fascinated by the huge reptiles. I am now prepared for wrestling alligators and crocodiles.

Custer State Park was fantastic. We went in the middle of the day and did not see as much wildlife; just a lot of elk and a couple buffalo. We drove the Peter Norbeck Scenic drive, and along Needles highway. It was very breathtaking. The drive that Carolina mentioned is the narrow one lane dirt road up to the summit of Mount Coolidge. It scared the hell out of me because there was a drop off on one side and no room for a car coming down. We were driving our car, Matt Malibu. No RV’s or cars pulling trailers on this road. I had no idea we were going to get stuck on this road or I would have NOT gotten on it. Once on, I could not turn around. At the top, it was just an awesome view of the world for miles. To my annoyance, there was someone that drove their motorhome up there. It bothered me because it creates a dangerous situation for other drivers on there way up or down while a motorhome is going up or down. While driving these scenic drives, we stopped at a small mountain lake and inflated our row boat and played on the water a little bit.

While driving through Needles Highway, it was getting dark, so I was on a mission to get out of the mountain roads before it was completely dark. We managed to get to the Mount Rushmore area at dark. That worked out because I was driving familiar roads going downhill. About a mile or so from Rushmore Shadows, we stopped at the Gaslight Bar and Restaurant and had a great meal. Of course, it also included a few shots of Jack Daniels to calm the queen of my dreams, and light of my life. It was a great day, but I was exhausted at days end.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

August 30th to September 3rd




Carolina’s Notes
Tony & I decided to leave Michigan due to weather. I wanted to stop by to see my brother Pete and his family. So I had to surprise Pete. When I would plan trips to see him; he would turn me down. I didn’t want to take no for an answer considering my past experiences with Pete and Kimber (my sister-in-law) so I came unannounced.

Well mission accomplished. I surprised Pete at work then went to his house to surprise my niece, Kelsey and nephew, Brett. I was so happy to see them. I hadn’t seen them in seven years so a lot of time had passed and they weren’t little anymore. They are now 17 and 11 so in or approaching their teen years. Pete asked me to stay an extra day since he was on vacation starting Wednesday so we stayed an extra day and left Thursday, September 3, 2009.

While Tony and I were in Moline we biked along the Mississippi River, visited John Deere Pavilion, and Quad City Botanical Center. There were many more bike rides to undertake but Tony & I decided to take it a little easy because after Moline the real driving began and we were still recuperating from our bickering on departure day. We also needed to do our laundry and soak in the hot tub at our KOA Campground also known as Camelot Campgrounds. I had an extra-added bonus because I was able to watch Brett play football. After the game, Tony, Pete, Kimber, Brett, Kelsey, Nancy (Kimber’s Mom), Bob (Kimber’s Step-Dad) and I had a picnic at a local city park. I apologize for not remembering the name of the park. I will never forget the wonderful time I had with my family. We talked about the football game, how life has been going, and how my mom has been. Again I cannot stress enough at what a marvelous time we had. The food was simple but the company and conversation was ‘Five-Star’ all the way. This stop reminded me of how to laugh. I had forgotten how to laugh but my brother and his family reminded me of how good it is to laugh despite life getting in the way. Thanks!

Tony’s Notes
Like Carolina Stated, we left Holland, Michigan on Sunday, August 30, 2009. We made it to Moline, Illinois late on Sunday, and we hooked up at the KOA campground called Camelot in Rock Island, Illinois; near Moline. We surprised Pete that evening by going by the Walgreen’s where he works. We were able to stop by his home and surprise Brett and Kelsey. It was late though, and we only briefly stopped, said hello, and got back to the campground. The next day, the kids had school, and Pete and Kimber had to work; one day I will go back to work somewhere, too. While they were off to work and school, we took our tandem bike over to downtown Moline, along the Mississippi River. Not that I mean to re-iterate everything Carolina already wrote in her notes.

Anyway, we stayed for several days, and enjoyed ourselves quite a bit. Carolina’s brother Pete is blessed with a very loving, close family. I am not sure they know what a great family they are and I enjoyed them.

The campground was older; however, they had a nice hot tub, and very clean showers. Our motorhome, Harry Hurricane, has fine showers in the bathroom. Usually, when we use the campground amenities, we will check and see how clean the bath house is and use the showers. In this case, we did not have a full hookup, so we could not dump the grey tank and because we had decided to stay a few extra days, we needed to use the KOA’s showers to ensure our grey tank did not get full and force me to unhook and go dump. I hate the idea of having to move the RV multiple times while at one campground or RV Park. Anyways, it worked out fine and we had some nice weather to play in Moline Illinois. There are paved bicycle trails for over two hundred miles along the Mississippi River. There are many marinas and parks along the way; however, being that the River is used for shipping, there are also many industrial sites. There were many sites to see that we did not take the time to do. I think that Carolina and I were still trying to adjust to this beginning of an extended journey cross-country.

August 28th and 29th







Carolina’s Notes
Well the day finally was here and Tony & I were in the west side of Michigan ready to play in Holland State Park. Well not quite, I was replaying his ugly words to me in my sleep, which didn’t make for a great night’s sleep. I got up with Tony and got coffee with him at Panera Bread. We tried to figure out what we should do so we decided to get hooked up at Holland State Park despite the rainy and cold conditions. Tony & I usually make the best of situations and this wasn’t going to be any different. Tony & I enjoyed getting breakfast at a restaurant called Dutch Brothers in Holland and we were looking forward to coming for one of their delicious omelets. Well we missed their breakfast hours so we had lunch instead. We got a campsite at Holland State Park then went for a hike since weather conditions didn’t permit playing in our bathing suits in Lake Michigan. We walked the beach and watched what little activity that was there. The ducks didn’t mind the rainy and cold conditions.

Well during our two-day stay Tony & I hiked and biked all around Holland, MI. The highlights were Black Lake Boardwalk and Mt. Pisgah.

Mt. Pisgah was good to start getting over my ‘Fear of Heights’ issue. It was a workout for me because I was VERY nervous. The bickering session with Tony weakened my mental health but I pressed onward. Visitors to Mt. Pisgah were polite and understanding with my slowness and timid ways of getting around the paths. It was cold and windy but when I got up to the top I was sweating bullets again I pressed onward to see all there was to see. I had a bit of a hiccup trying to get down a nature/wooded path but Tony helped me get down. Tony was terrific getting me back to my comfort level. Once I have a panic attack it is hard to get back to my ‘Ground Zero’ but despite that Tony & I made it back and even enjoyed ourselves. I was glad I went on that hike.

Tony’s Notes
Holland was great; however, I did have some disappointment that we had not been able to spend very many hot summer days on the beaches of Lake Michigan. I was very anxious to head west, but truly did not want to miss out on any good days along the west side of our state. I love the boat towns and fine sandy beaches of Lake Michigan. We had visited so many world class beaches on our southern Caribbean cruise, and had been all over Michigan, Wisconsin, and all of the Great Lakes on our tandem bike and had never found such a great fine sandy coast line as Lake Michigan. We love biking the rails to trails, and playing on the beaches. So, it was hard cutting things short in Holland, but the weather was cold, gloomy, and wet and it was time to head westward. However, as Carolina stated, we did stop at out favorite restaurant, Dutch Brothers. We went for Lunch, but did get to go for breakfast the one morning before we left. The folks that work there remember us from the previous summer; I guess we are a memorable couple. They have some specialty type of breakfasts, and we so enjoy being waited on; we like wining and dining, but always over indulge.

We did go into Saugatuck for a day, and walked around town window shopping. We spent some time tasting Olive Oils, and also did some Wine Tasting. We had some fresh Whitefish by the water, and headed back to Holland.

Saturday, September 26, 2009

July 20, 2009 to August 27, 2009 background


Tony’s Notes
Well, after making the decision together, we put in our two week notices on July 20th. Our last day of employment was July 31st. It felt good to walk away and prepare for this extended journey toward something new in our lives.

After having five children before I had turned 23 years of age, my focus had always been to work hard and do whatever job would pay me the most amount of money. It was never about what I wanted to do but about what I had to do to earn a living. So, working every week and always averaging 50 hours a week from, for the most part, 1979 to 2009, I had only taken paid vacation in one week increments. Honestly, I never really took a real vacation until the mid-1990’s, when I was in my 30’s. I remember that we had free airfare and we flew round trip to San Francisco. We stayed at Carolina’s brother’s house, used their car, and they paid for a hotel for us to stay in Monterey. It was a great vacation. We had rode bicycles over the Golden Gate Bridge into Sausalito and also played at Fisherman’s Wharf, eating lots of free samples of Clam Chowder. We also had time to drive into Napa Valley and go wine tasting at many vineyards. That was a great time. I think the next real vacation we had was when we took a southern Caribbean cruise with Celebrity cruise line. That was in February of 2001. It was a fantastic trip. However, again, they were only one week vacations few and far between.

We did have many three day and four day weekends. We always enjoyed bike riding together, and when we bought our Tandem bicycle in 2001 or 2002, we started bike riding everywhere. This was also when our son Tony came home from college for the summer and had become a Vegan. We started cooking Vegan style vegetarian meals, and all of a sudden both Carolina and I started losing weight and feeling great. This was also when I bought the book, “Body for Life” by Bill Philips. Carolina and I started the Body for Life program by Lifting weights together, three days a week after work. It was convenient because we both worked in Southfield and could carpool together most of the time. We typically got home at the same time from work, whether we carpooled or not, so weight lifting after work was ideal back then. We were also bike riding twenty plus miles a days, everyday, just for fun. On the days we did not weight lift, we would get a twenty minute cardio workout. Once a week, usually on Friday after work, we would have a Yoga class together. It was only an hour Yoga class, but directly from work on a Friday it was a very relaxing workout that left you calm and ready for a good weekend off of work, yet the next day I would always wake up with sore muscles from Yoga; it was great. That year, we both lost more than 40 pounds of body weight and were both in good physical condition.

Up through 2003, we maintained this healthy lifestyle. We typically ate very healthy six days a week, and one day a week was considered our free day to eat whatever we wanted. This free day was usually on Sunday, and we usually felt ill on Monday from eating too much high fat crap. Somewhere in late 2003, life got busy. We no longer both worked in Southfield, so we no longer had the ability to car pool. Carolina had said that we had become very un-social with family and friends between 2001 and 2003 and that we needed to be more involved with our family, our grown children and their families. I think she was correct, and that we needed to be more involved with our families. However, our best years as a couple were those physically fit, healthy years in 2001 through 2003.

Like I said, life got busy. We were busy with taking care of our Mom’s, our Kids, our Grandkids, our Jobs; we were not eating at home very often anymore. After each stopping at our mothers’ after work to check on them or do for them, we were usually getting home from work after 7pm. We ate out regularly and by 2005 I was even going out for burgers and a beer. The alcohol was something I had not had for several years. In the 1990’s I probably drank beer every single day; along with smoking. I quit smoking in December of 1999, and Carolina quit in January of 2001. I did not want the empty calories from alcohol, but it slowly became something I consumed once again. However, let me point out that it was not very often, maybe once every couple of weeks.

From late 2004 to now, mid-2009, I have gained weight and have very solid belly fat. I have went from a comfortable 160lb’s to an un-comfortable, weighed down 180lbs. Being a 48 yr old man, and almost reaching mid-life, I really want to drop down to a healthy 150lbs. and be very active.

Now, I have digressed years back and need to get back to current day. The day came, July 31st. We were both voluntarily unemployed. I had written a 21 page decision document about this decision and we have taken a huge leap of faith. We were both miserable getting up everyday and going to work. I was not happy in my work, and therefore put forth half-ass effort for a somewhat high-salary; not really fair to my employer. Carolina would call crying everyday because she hated the traffic and daily grind. So, here we are, unemployed and ready for an extended vacation. The only thing was it is not supposed to be a vacation, but a sabbatical. The thought and plan was to get physically healthy in Body, Mind, and Spirit; let’s face it, it is all a matter of ‘thought’.


Carolina’s Notes
Well the day finally was here and Tony & I were leaving for our sabbatical. I had been packing for 2 days while Tony had been packing/planning for a month and a half. I felt everything was moving along considering we weren’t on a time crunch or so Tony remarked. I was packing and asking for Tony’s input into my packing for two reasons; one he had been packing for a month and two –he had a better idea of the essentials to take. Let’s face it I am a women and I tend to over pack just for our weekend get-a-ways. Then when we didn’t depart on schedule Tony became upset. His time came and we weren’t on the road yet this just wasn’t what he had envisioned and he told me just how he felt.

I was crushed and I almost didn’t leave with him. All the annoying, frustrating things I did/do just came rushing out of his mouth. I felt like I had been bambusseled. Tony told me originally that we’d leave Labor Day then he said he wanted to leave before Labor Day due to missing snow in WA, CA, etc. Mentally I planned for Labor Day and in reality I planned a day at a time. However, I was communicating to Tony that I had to take it one day at a time because of my figuring out how to get over the ‘Fear of Heights.’ Tony reassured me that no pressure so I took it one day at a time and followed his lead.

Well I did leave with Tony and I was so angry all I could see was red. Not the way to start this type of journey. We bickered and then finally I was quiet. I didn’t really speak to him for 3 days. We drove to Holland, MI speaking only when necessary.

We arrived in Holland late and pulled into a Meijer store’s parking lot to sleep. We parked there because next door was Panera Bread and this store had invited us to stay there next time we were in town so we did. I was going to sleep on one of the other couches but Tony insisted that we sleep in the master room together. I did and hoped tomorrow would be better. I was at the farthest point of bed away from him as possible. I did finally sleep praying tomorrow would be better.

Tony’s Notes
August was difficult. We had so much preparation to get accomplished before being able to truly ‘hit the road’. One thing that Carolina and I had always wanted to do if we had any extended time off of work was to declutter the house, yard, and garage. So, we spent much needed time cleaning out closets, corners of the basement, and so forth. We had a yard sale and collected over $552 selling stuff that had sat around the house un-used for years. We got rid of too many clothes that had not been worn, and donated much of it to charity.

Also during this month of August, we had to move finances around, rollover our 401k dollars into individual IRAs’ and annuities’, buy affordable health insurance, and life insurance. Overall, be prepared for a potential life of independence from any reliance from any employers benefits. Things came together well, but it did cause a certain amount of stress and anxiety. However, now we have self-funded Life & Health insurance, and are ready for a life of entrepreneurial focus.

Finally, at the end of August, we were ready. We had outsourced many services to have our mail forward to us weekly or bi-weekly to whatever location we happened to find ourselves. We also had setup services to have Carolina’s mother taken care of with at least two visits per week. We shut down our house by turning off and draining the hot water heater, and having cable TV shut off and those types of things. Our house was clean and decluttered; the refrigerator was empty, off, clean, and open. We covered certain furniture, and should be able to come home to a house that was clean and free of dust.

We had had family members wondering if we would have someone stay at the house, rent it out, or something like that, but I wanted to be sure I could come home to my home whenever I wanted, whether in a mother or six months did not matter. My home is mine, and I did not want someone staying there even if it was family.

So, like Carolina stated above, we finally hit the road and headed for Lake Michigan. We loved spending time around Lake Michigan, and loved being in the Holland area. We took off on August 27th; it was a Thursday evening and we left a little later in the day as planned. We slept our first night in a parking lot at Meijer’s in Grand Rapids, next to Panera Bread. It was nice the next day to get up and walk over to Panera to do some work on the laptops, and do some planning. This past summer, we had not had a chance to spend some good quality time on Lake Michigan. Unfortunately, the weather was not very cooperative. So while at Panera we had to make some decisions surrounding our next events. We decided to spend the weekend along Lake Michigan in Holland.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Background of The Journey


After working the usual 9 to 5 Plus job for many years, Carolina and I decided to do the unusual and leave the "Normal" JOB and take a true Sabbatical.

The background that lead to this decision started many years ago. However, one of the most recent drivers that helped make this Sabbatical a reality started three years ago when we bought our motorhome.