November 24th - Austin, Texas

Looking down from the dome of the State Capital Building

Late Lunch at Bess's

Just a few Bats

Carolina’s Notes
I got up gingerly because of the bickering that took place yesterday. I was still raw from the harsh words. Tony and I talked through some of the issues that spark the bickering. It was a necessary evil that actually promoted our reconciliation. I was RELIEVED! We got showered and dressed. We decided to head into downtown Austin.

The journey started at Starbucks so we could figure out what sight seeing was going to be accomplished. We went to the Capitol Building. It was neat! It is also ironic because I’ve never seen Michigan’s Capitol and I’ve lived in Michigan all of my life. We wanted to grab lunch so we ate at Bess’ Bistro. The food, service and the facilities were GREAT!! Tony asked our waitress, Beth, about other sights in Austin. Beth told Tony that bats house themselves under one of their bridges. Tony wanted to see the bats come out at dusk. I wanted to stay far away so I sat at a Wine Bar. We had a blast!! Tony saw the bats and clicked pictures and I stayed away, watch football highlights, talked, and sipped great wine. It was time well spent! On the way home, I asked Tony to stop to pick up BBQ. I wanted to compare BBQ cooking and took some advice from a local consumer on other places in town. Well, Black’s BBQ still has my vote as best BBQ.

We arrived home and ate our BBQ. Tony made a fire and we enjoyed the stars and fire until bed. The night ended very nicely. I was grateful for my day and everything that I have.

Tony’s Notes
It was an awful night trying to sleep. I was not sure if I was going to get up and start driving to Michigan as fast as possible or continue this journey. I think I was ready to be a 49 year old divorced man because, after last night, I had had it. The thing is, I love my wife for who she is, and I really just pray that she can come out of her emotional funk, get it together, and be what I expect. Of course, that may sound bad, but I want what I want and I will have what I want. I cannot help that some may think of me as a control freak. Most of those people have no plan in their lives; I do. Anyway, we both put our wedding rings back on our hands.

We decided to make up and take a day trip to Austin, Texas. I wanted Carolina to see the capital city of Texas. We got downtown and found a place to park. We did some walking, and toured through the Capital building.

The capital building was very beautiful. It is taller than our national capital building; I guess everything is bigger in Texas. We walked through the downtown area and saw some pretty interesting sites. I enjoyed stopping at Bess’s. We split a bottle of wine, and had happy hour appetizers’. We had oysters, taboulli, Stilton with crackers, and some macaroni cheese balls. It was all very good.

We walked toward the bridge where the bats fly out at dusk. Austin, Texas has the largest population of Bats in any urban area. About one block from the bridge, we stepped into the Wine Bar; I think it was called “Cork & Co.” or something. Anyway, we each had a glass of wine, and I left Carolina there while I walked over to the bridge.

It was quite amazing to watch the Bats flying out from under the bridge. There were thousands of little bats’ and they looked like a cloud up in the sky. I took some snapshots, and headed back to the wine bar to check on Carolina. We had another glass of wine, and a cheese plate with pumpkin seeds. Then, we walked back to our car for the forty mile drive back to the state park and home.

We stopped and picked up some barbecue from Kraus’s, another famous BBQ place. They were getting ready to close, and they were kind of rude. Black’s BBQ was much better both with food and quality service. We did have a nice campfire and great make up sex. So, it was a great day. Tomorrow was a travel day toward Houston, so we did not have far to drive.

November 23rd - Lockhart, Texas and Black's BBQ

Old County Courthouse in Lockhart, TX

Carolina’s Notes
I got up and threw on clothes because we slept at a Truck Stop and didn’t want to over stay our welcome. We went just a little ways until the next Rest Area. Tony wanted to make coffee and talk to me about our next destination. Well we started bickering; it sparked from Tony’s reaction to my annoying habits. The spark turned into a big ROARNG fire. So traveling today wasn’t very pleasant. I just don’t understand how a simple spark got into such a fire. I realize that my fuse has been short especially these last two days. I am ill over the fact that I cannot seem to communicate with Tony. I’ve have difficulty communicating with him for several years. I thought this sabbatical would help but the 24/7 contact seems to be making it worse. I feel like the harder I try to communicate or to be apologetic the more I dig myself a grave. I’ll just keep trying until I get it right. In the meantime, I do hope he doesn’t throw me out of the RV.

We got into San Antonio. We originally thought that we might finally go to Sea World but it was just out of budget. Tony inquired as to price discounts but the pricing was still high. We changed plans and decided to find lodging in Lockhart. Tony found a place and it just happened to be the Lockhart State Park. We will be here two nights and will have water and electric facilities. I quickly showered while Tony was unhooking the car by the Dump Station so once I was finished he could dump the tank. I took a military type shower but at least I am clean because I felt real grimy. According to Tony, I should be able to take a quick shower tomorrow despite the sewage facilities situation. Tony took a quick shower once we were secure in our site. Tony is ready to get into town.

We started at Black’s BBQ and it was terrific! We even received a tour of the BBQ pit and that was a treat. We then drove around downtown and stopped at the library but it was closing. We then drove farther around the downtown area closer to the campground. We were hunting for firewood and Monday Night Football. We found a place but only stayed for one because it was too early for the game and we needed firewood. We spoke to a local in the place and he instructed us on where to buy firewood. After we bought firewood, we stopped at a bar and grill across from the gas station that sold firewood. We watched the first half of Monday Night Football. During our stay, Tony had to take a call. When he returned, he gave me a message and I continued on in a manner Tony felt offensive. I was expressing myself over on a topic already discussed in private and Tony wasn’t happy with me. Apparently, I behaved VERY rudely!! It is a HOT button issue for me and I wasn’t in tune with his feelings. We got home and Tony was angry and left to cool off. He didn’t want to be around me anymore. I must say that this STINGS my core. I consider myself to be a nice person but from what Tony described to me this evening…I am NOT kind. My apologizing fell on deaf ears. Tony said that he’d had all he could stand of me and it killed me where I stood. Before he closed the door, I asked him to please come home to Harry (RV) after he cooled down and he said he would. I have been having difficulty relating to him and I hope this doesn’t drive him out of my life. It has been an eternity since his departure. Now I am left all alone wondering if Tony will return to continue spending his life with me or decide to go his own way. I MUST confess that I was lucky to have found Tony in the first place and I am at a loss on how to fix my transgressions of my words and lack of consideration. I came on this sabbatical for many reasons and one was to have better communications with Tony. Apparently, the 24/7 time with each other didn’t help. My heart is broken and I don’t know what to do to fix this terrible mess of harsh words. I type this with tears pouring out of my eyes. It is ironic that the trip of a lifetime just might be the death of my marriage. My one boss hinted to me once my resignation had been received to let Tony go on his own…in hindsight my boss might have been correct. I have caused Tony much grief with NO malice intent but it doesn’t matter at this point. I might loose the best thing that ever happened to me and I have NO answers on how to fix the brokenness.

Tony’s Notes
Wow! Well we passed right through San Antonio. Carolina and I had spent a week in San Antonio several years ago, when our daughter Mehgan had graduated from Basic Training during her short stint with the United States Air Force. So, we had been all through the River Walk area, and the Alamo. Sea World was tempting, but I think doing something like that might be more fun with my grandson, Dylan. It was over $50 per person, and another $15 for parking. With everything else, it would have been a $200 day.

Now, when I was doing some work for Ascension Health, I had been in Austin, Texas last December. While in Austin, I had taken a drive on highway 183 and found Black’s BBQ. Being that we were so close, I wanted to take Carolina there to check it out. I was glad there was a State Park near by that had hookups. It was a nice state park and we got hooked up early in the day.

We drove over to Black’s BBQ and started ordering our food. I told the guy at the counter carving our meat that we came all the way from Michigan just to come to Black’s BBQ. It turned out he was the owner, and he thanked us for being there. He told us to come see him when we were done eating. So, when we finished eating our fill of barbecued beef brisket, spare ribs, and home smoked sausage, we went to see Kent Black.

Black’s BBQ had been in business and owned by the same family since 1932. There fire pit had been burning the whole time. Kent Black, the owner, took us for a tour and showed us everything. He explained how his father had built the fire pit and smoker setup. Kent also showed us the fires, the wood, everything. Kent took our picture to post on his website. He was quite a good showman giving us the tour. There was something special with Black’s Barbecue restaurant. It was a small place with great employees that treated us right.

Afterwards, we eventually made it to a place where Carolina could watch football before going back to the RV and having a campfire. It is extremely unfortunate that Carolina allowed herself to get so nasty with her poor behavior and the night really ended very poorly. She just does not realize that poor behavior spoils a fantastic day; when it happens continuously, at some point, enough is enough. She really is a mess and I truly believe she needs help dealing with her many emotional issues.

November 22nd - Motoring through Texas

Carolina’s Notes
I got up today and showered and dressed; I must say that it felt great!! I was in desperate need of a shower since I skipped one yesterday. Tony has surprised me with some fresh Krispie Crème donuts. The donuts aren’t part of a healthy eating plan but it was a nice treat with coffee. THANKS Tony!! We got ourselves road ready and hit the road.

Our first stop was at the Texas Visitor’s Center. We were able to pick up useful information on some of Tony’s Points of Interest. We might spend another night at a truck stop to have another zero dollar lodging night but having some visitor’s information is always helpful. We stopped at a Rest Area and Tony fixed an egg sandwich for us to split; I must say it was yummy. The ride through El Paso was a little nervy; I’m not sure why all I know is that my hands were sweating bullets. Later on down the road, I decided to call my mom only because it is a good time to reach her.

Yep, BIG MISTAKE! Tony tried to coach me along while on the phone as the conversation blew up with my mom and me. Then the conversation blew up with Tony and me. The call dropped. Then that’s when the firecrackers really went off between Tony and me. I try and I try to tell folks that I can’t reason with my mom. I do the best I can with the situations that unfold. I’m not a relationship expert. My mom and I just don’t communicate well. I don’t know how many times I have to repeat myself. It is hard to call and speak to my mom but it is a necessary evil. I eventually called my mom again so she knows that the call dropped. She was fine and we ended on a positive note. Now the ride is tense and VERY uncomfortable because Tony and I had HARSH words towards and to each other. So much for trying to call and let my mom know I was thinking about her.

Well we traveled about 430 miles today. We traveled into the night then found a Truck Stop in Junction, TX. We had dinner at a Cooper’s BBQ; it happened to be right next door to the Truck Stop. We relaxed in Harry (RV) until bed.

Tony’s Notes
Today was some real motoring. Driving over 430 miles is quite a bit in a motorhome, while pulling a car. Being that Chevrolet states to NOT drive over 65 MPH while towing the Chevy Malibu, I can’t go any faster. However, driving on cruise control at 64 MPH is actually a comfortable traveling speed. The Texas highways have speeds posted as high as 80 MPH. So, most folks on the road are passing us, including semi trucks. I think I get just as good of gas mileage pulling a car as I did when I was NOT pulling a car. This must be because I drive a little slower while towing.

Towing a car on this journey has been a huge blessing. I cannot believe that I had intended to only have our bicycle. There are so many places we would not have been able to go unless I had a car with us. I had thought about renting a car here and there along the way, instead of making the $3,000 dollar investment in a towing setup; I am very happy we made the investment. I just have to keep the 2003 Chevy Malibu on the road as long as possible because when the time comes to buy a new car, we will have to get a baseplate installed that matches up with my Blue Ox Tow Bar. A new car would have to be towable and of low weight; I am hoping to not have to buy a new car until the end of 2013.

It was a bit of a tense and depressing day because the arguing between Carolina and I. Her neurotic behavior just wears me down and after almost ninety days on the road, I think I may have had about enough.

I have thoroughly enjoyed this extended journey, and I believe we will do this again many times over the next years in our lives. There are so many things to see and do in this great country, and I do not want to be at the mercy of an employer only giving me a paid week off here and there.

I may not have achieved everything I set out to achieve on a sabbatical. However, I have gotten enough out of my system from a mid-life crisis perspective to feel good about getting back to working for a living, for a while anyway.

November 21st

Tony’s Notes
We had a great breakfast hosted by the RV resort activities committee. We are kids compared to all of the senior citizens filling up this RV Park. It is snowbird season; they laugh seeing me in a t-shirt and shorts, while they all are wearing sweaters.

We were up to eat early, so it helped get us packed up and on the road early, as well. We drove 400 miles today, and it is the most miles in one day since we headed out on the road over 87 days ago. Typically, I do not want to drive that many miles; however, we need to make time through New Mexico and West Texas. Plus, I figured, if I am sleeping in a truck stop, I better drive until it is late because it is not like I would want to get there early to hang out.

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up and threw on clothes so we could partake in the breakfast social hosted by Carefree Manor RV Resort. We ate and got ready for the road. We aren’t sure how far we are going to travel. Tony originally planned on Tucson, AZ but may travel farther. He eventually wants to land in Texas to pursue more contract work. I’m planning on starting my journey sitting in the passenger seat but if things change then I’ll move to the kitchen. The weather is gorgeous so that helps to promote a smooth running travel day.

I had a TERRIFIC travel day!! The terrain was flat and the weather stayed gorgeous as well as we ate our own food. I was able to ride shotgun the whole trip. We traveled a little over 400 miles today. It was a terrific ride. We drove and drove; we traveled through Arizona right on by New Mexico into Texas. We bunked at a Flying J’s in Anthony, TX; it was coincidence but cool. We ate our own food in Harry (RV) and settled down for the night. I was SO grateful to eat my own food today. I went to bed safe and grateful. I can’t ask for anything else.

November 20th

Tony’s Notes
Our last day in Apache Junction, near Phoenix, was a stay at home type of day to get chores and things done. It was a nice day. I also enjoyed having Carolina help me prep the fruit and veggies. We had gone to a produce market that had inexpensive produce.

When we got home, I had four cantaloupes that would definitely not fit into the small RV refrigerator. So, by cutting them all up at once, I could fit them into a Tupperware container that would fit in the fridge. Carolina cut up two quarts of strawberries. Through teamwork, we had our produce prepped to be used. I cooked up some tofu with grapeseed oil, red peppers, and fresh ground black pepper. Once the tofu was seared a bit, I threw in some green onion, green pepper, fresh garlic, and fresh chopped tomato. I let that all cook a little bit and tossed it with some egg noodles. It made a great lunch and had a good kick to it.

Going out to eat later in the evening for dinner was good. We like to go to the local establishments, and my 14 oz. New York Strip was quite excellent. Yet, I know that I could have driven down the road to a local Texas Roadhouse and have a 6 oz. sirloin, enjoyed it just as much, and saved a bunch of dollars.

We had been in the Phoenix area for a full week and it was now time to head east.

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up with a headache and puzzled as to why. Tony sprang out of bed and quickly showered and dressed. I lingered in bed until he was finished. He suggested throwing on clothes and bicycling to Starbucks but I declined. I briefly explained that I woke up out of sorts. He said, “That’s ok.” I responded, “I’d like to bicycle later to get a Starbucks’ Pumpkin Latte and definitely wanted to bike.” I was being conscience of the calories. We sipped coffee at home while listening to the music Tony had purchased at the Arizona Opry. I am glad he did; I am thoroughly enjoying Tony’s selections. The choices are a BIG hit! I’ll finish my computer work then get cleaned up. I should shower because the steam should help me from sneezing. I have been sneezing since I awoke and it is annoying.

I did get myself cleaned up and dressed. I was SO stir crazy that I asked Tony to take me grocery shopping and he was willing. We went to the grocery store and produce market. We got home and processed our groceries so they wouldn’t spoil. Tomorrow is a travel day and we should be able to eat our own food that is already prepared. It was fun working in the kitchen with Tony. He was leisurely packing up our bikes and other outdoor gear. I asked him if we could take a short bike ride and he agreed. I am sorry to say that it was challenging because I am SO out of shape. I need to get myself back to a healthy life style. Anyway, we’ve been enjoying ourselves today. I even called my mom and was able to help her resolve a nagging issue for her; it’ll take help from Heather but for mom issue resolved…YAHOO!! We’re going to do the laundry so it’ll be done for travel day. Things are taking shape nicely. I am looking forward to a nice evening with Tony.

Tony and I decided to go out to dinner. We remembered a sign that stated best steaks in town while touring Tonto National Forest. We finished laundry and went in search for our steak. We found it; best steaks resided at Mammoth Steakhouse and Saloon. It was VERY quiet for a Friday Night. The establishment had live entertainment and they were good. We unfortunately only heard two songs then the band went to eat and by the time the band was finished eating so were we. Tony and I didn’t want to have another cocktail so we headed home. We got home and enjoyed the rest of our evening together. I went to bed thankful for everything in my life.

November 19th

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up feeling lethargic. I slept ok or so I presumed. I planned to catch up on journalizing while Tony showered and I sipped coffee. Plans change…

My mom phoned while I was completing some of my computer work. My mom was on a warpath!! She wants me home and now she’s throwing everything at me. See, my mom has always felt that it is MY responsibility to take care of her. I have done everything I have known what to do for my family; this includes my dad, my mom, my two brothers and their families, Tony and my own children (technically they’re step children but my heart doesn’t know the difference). My relationship with my mother hasn’t been a good one…EVER!! I haven’t come up with an answer to my oil and water relationship with my mom. My mom is eccentric and has been almost as long as I have lived. She also has NO concept of others whether it is their feelings, opinions or actions; she dismisses everyone but what she wants/needs. Not an admirable quality when you are a mother of three children. When I finally got off the phone, Tony had things to say and I really didn’t need or want to talk or hear what he had to say…PERIOD!! I don’t need WORLDLY advice about how to handle my mother because the relationship is dysfunctional. The fact is I do the best I can with the situations as they happen. I told Tony to kindly SHUT UP!! I knew what my mom was doing on the telephone and I certainly didn’t need anyone to point it out. He got angry which only made my feelings more intense. I had a home cooked breakfast waiting for me. I managed to eat my breakfast with Tony, but breakfast time was tense at the table. My food was FABULOUS!! I thanked Tony for cooking. This phone call/tension took a lot out of me. I’m running out of time to bath and dress if Tony and I are going back to Tortilla Flats and Tonto National Forest. We are staying another day to float around on Canyon Lake in Tonto National Forest. I’ll see how things go.

I managed to get showered and dressed while Tony was driving around to receive a good cell phone reception. When he returned, I was crying and ruining my make up that I just applied. He consoled me and asked me to calm down so we can continue with our original plan; this was to float on Canyon Lake in the Tonto National Forest. I let him know that I didn’t know how because I was SO upset that my stomach was in turmoil. He lovingly coaxed me back to sanity. I went to Canyon Lake in the Tonto National Forest and had a blast!! We even managed to get home before dark. Tony mentioned going to the movies and I was game. I had wanted to see Law Abiding Citizen and we had just enough time to make show time so we dashed out the door.

We made it to the movie. Law Abiding Citizen isn’t my typical movie but I was intrigued by the story. There were scenes in the movie that were gruesome and unnecessary for the viewer to watch; the audience had enough information to draw the correct conclusion/assumption. I ignored these scenes and focused on the story. Warning: this movie definitely has ADULT content and children should NOT watch this film! Despite the unnecessary graphic scenes, I was glad I saw this film. Tony and I arrived home and relaxed the rest of the night until bed. I went to sleep grateful and content for everything I have in my life!

Tony’s Notes
I love our inflatable boats. We have two, one is a two person Kayak, and the other is a row boat. They both store in one large compartment on the RV. We took the row boat out to Canyon Lake.
During the summer, in Michigan, we usually use the row boat on some inland lake to row around and take naps in the sunshine. It is perfect for the both of us to comfortably lay back and sleep an afternoon away. Last summer, before this journey, we did not get a chance to do that and I longed for the chance. So, getting out to Canyon Lake and floating around in the Valley of the Sun sounded awesome.

The Kayak is a fine inflatable. However, it is best for a trip down a river or, if out on a lake, we need to buy some floatation devices, because it tips fairly easy. I did not want to be on some mountain lake and flip upside down; it was too unfamiliar to me.

Anyway, we had a great afternoon rowing out to the middle of the lake and taking a nap. I would have stayed out even longer, but I did not want to get caught out there when the Sun set. It would get dark fast, and where we were there were NO lights. So, we got back to shore and deflated the boat, packed it up, and prepped for the drive home to Harry. We had eaten some barbecue chicken and fresh asparagus that I had prepared prior to taking the boat out. It was good eating our own food after such high fat eating the past couple of days.

Driving out in the Tonto National Forest is very beautiful. There is a great view of the Superstition Mountain range and Apache Trail. I know if we stayed a couple more days, we could take a day trip further out to Roosevelt Lake. These Lakes were formed over one hundred years ago when they built Roosevelt Damn. This desert area has thrived because of the water Man has brought to it. This is a very interesting area but I know it is time for us to head east before we end up going North and home to Michigan for the winter.

Both Carolina and I want to stay on the road until spring. We both want to avoid Snow this winter in Michigan. In fact, when I told Carolina that we will most likely be home in Michigan by Christmas she started crying. I was actually quite surprised because I truly believe that most women would have wanted to be home by now and tired of RV’ing with the small bathroom accommodations and so forth; I truly do not mean that to sound sexist in any way. It is just what many have commented about; they always ask, ‘so, is your wife OK with that, because I wouldn’t be and you are very lucky’.

The truth is we both have the Fulltime or Extended RV’ing Itch or fever. That means that even if we go home to Michigan for a while, we will end up back out on the road again. I enjoyed our outdoor adventures this day, and going to the movies this evening.

November 18th - Tortilla Flats & Arizona Opry

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up feeling ill from my late night fast food dinner. I know better than to eat like a teenager but I just can’t seem to stop. I feel like a food addict. I will try to make a real effort to eat healthier…wish me luck! Since I am feeling a little under the weather, I am going to sip coffee while doing some computer work before getting cleaned up. Tony mentioned he wanted to walk/jog to exercise. Tony has a phone interview this morning so we didn’t leave ourselves enough time before the call. I like to exercise on an empty stomach and prior to showering. The weather is nice and I’d like to get out and enjoy. Meanwhile, I’ll complete my computer work.

Instead of the plan to eat better today, Tony and I went to the community hamburger social here at Carefree Manor RV Resort. I enjoyed the socializing and the food was very good. Later in the afternoon we toured Tortilla Flats and Tonto National Forest. Tony was feeling rough from eating like a teenager. I enjoyed our journey despite our recuperation. We didn’t spend lots of time sight seeing. We made plans to see the Arizona Opry so we got home. I started feeling VERY ill driving home; I wasn’t sure if it was from the lack of hydrating properly or the hamburgers were disagreeing. I started wondering if I was going to make it to our evening engagement. I got home and drank lots of water and laid down and rested. It did the trick.

We got ourselves to the Arizona Opry. We had a marvelous time!! The guests at our table were great! In summary the show, company and food were terrific and I was glad I went! We arrived home and enjoyed a movie until it was time for bed.

Tony’s Notes
The Day started with the Hamburger’s at the Clubhouse. It was a great event, and I enjoyed talking with the folks there that had arrived to spend the winter here. One older gentleman mentioned that we need to take a drive to Tortilla Flats and Canyon Lake, and if we planned a full day trip we should go as far as Roosevelt Lake.

I thought it was a great idea to take an afternoon sightseeing drive. So after the hamburgers, which were really our breakfast because of sleeping in quite late, we got ready for a drive over to the Tonto National Forest near the Superstition Mountains.

Both of us started feeling pretty rough from the eating we had been doing for the past 12 hours. I think between late night popcorn, pizza, ice cream and starting the day with hamburgers, pickles, and chips, we were having a hard time digesting such stuff. We had a great drive out to Tortilla Flats and decided that we should stay and extra day and come back with our inflatable boat to row around the lake and bask in the Sun.

Once home, we took a short nap, and then got ready to go to the Arizona Opry . This was a fantastic show. They fed us a nice roast beef dinner, and provided phenomenal entertainment. I bought five CD’s of their music for $40 during intermission; I hope I enjoy listening to it. I am just trying to do my best to support our economy. I really enjoyed the Arizona Opry, and if we were staying for a couple weeks, I would come back for their Thanksgiving show, their Gospel Show, and their Holiday program.

November 17th

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up and got showered and dressed. I wanted to complete the rest of my tasks on my To-Do List and since I skipped showering yesterday I wasted NO time. We are now at the point that getting back to work to earn money is a necessity. Today’s plan for Tony & I is continue working on our businesses. We are self-employed and it takes more hours being self-employed. I am enjoying being able to stay at home and complete some of my work.

In order to complete some of my work, I had to run to the store to complete some of my work because I needed some office supplies. Tony came with me and I enjoyed his company. Once we arrived home I quickly completed my task. We hung out in Harry (RV) until we decided to go to the movie 2012. I thought the movie was good and I would recommend 2012. I had also wanted to go to Bingo. Carefree Manor RV Resort hosts Bingo Night every Tuesday and I wanted to attend. I felt this was a good avenue to offer and present that I am a Mary Kay Consultant. Tony was willing to accompany me; he really is a good sport about my endeavors! We enjoyed ourselves despite not winning any games. We weren’t satisfied to stay in for the rest of the night. We went to find pizza and we found some and took it home. Now you know we couldn’t come home without ice cream so we bought ice cream too. We relaxed the rest of the night until bed. I went to sleep with a belly full of food, safe and sound, with Tony so I couldn’t ask for anything more. I am VERY grateful for all that I have.

Tony’s Notes
We just kind of hung out at home today and completed tasks; like Carolina states above. I did start to get follow up phone calls from prospective employers and recruiters.

I had a phone interview for a full time opportunity in Atlanta, GA. I do have an interest; although, it would mean a permanent relocation. It would be a good career move; however, I still have a strong desire to do short term contracts that last anywhere from 2 months to 8 months.

My hopes are that we would be able to take four to six week road trips in between engagements. Either that or I need to practice what I have learned from the book, “The Four Hour Work Week” by Timothy Ferriss. It would require us to develop a product, test market it, and make small investments to get it marketed. Then, of course, we would need to outsource most of the work.

We went to the movie a little bit early in the afternoon. It was a good movie, but very intense ‘end of the world’ kind of stuff. Afterwards, we went to the RV Park’s clubhouse and played bingo. I have never played bingo before; at least not since I was a kid. I was hoping to win some money, but each time I was one number from yelling bingo, someone else got it. Carolina and I are like kids here because everyone is older seniors and retired. However, hanging out with them playing bingo was quite fun.

November 16th

Happy Birthday Mehgan!!

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up and threw on clothes because Tony wanted to go to Wildflower Bread Co. This bakery is a knock-off from Panera Bread apparently the owner use to work for Panera Bread Company in the early years. The old saying goes ‘The sincerest form of flattery is imitation’ aka copying you. Panera is still the best in my opinion. Anyway I ran out of the RV (Harry) raw meaning no make-up. I need to make sure that I wear my face while carrying my Mary Kay Bag. I am in business for myself as a Mary Kay Consultant so I have no days off I am always working. I took my products with me and put my face on in the lady’s restroom. I figured if someone asked about what I was putting onto my face then I could elaborate. Well we did our work and I enjoyed the coffee and the music.

We eventually got home to Harry (RV) and did some laundry. The weather is great and I’d like to bicycle. I may be able to convince Tony to get me out and work off my nervous pent up energy. I have several Mary Kay tasks that I haven’t completed yet so I probably won’t get out on the bike. Tony wasn’t receiving a good cell phone connection so he had to take off in the car to make calls. Meanwhile, I was completing tasks on my To-Do List; I managed to complete almost all so I was happy.

Once tasks were done and it was getting dark, I asked Tony to take me to see Monday Night Football. He was a good sport and agreed. We went to a place called Spirits and had a great time! We got some DQ then went home to Harry (RV). We relaxed the rest of the night until bed. We had a good productive day. I went to bed grateful for all I have.

Tony’s Notes
It was Monday, and I wanted to hit the ground and pound the pavement to find a short term gig in the Phoenix area. So, we got to the Wildflower Bread Company to have a Cinnamon Roll, Coffee, and to get some internet and phone work done.

I made contact with several recruiters and a few companies. However, locally, most of the opportunities were permanent full time jobs. I did make contacts and started working with a recruiter that I really liked talking to about future opportunities. My intention is to only be in the Phoenix area for a short time, unless contract work serviced quickly.

Unless I can find a short term contract engagement on the road, I know that we have to start making our way east, and then north into the cold. I fully expect to make it back to Michigan before Christmas because I do not expect very many clinical Healthcare IT projects to service until January. I have to get a specific minimum rate or it won’t make sense to work on the road; I have to be able to meet our monthly expenses. Our expenses go down considerable once we are home in Michigan, and the RV is winterized and stored until next spring (or our next sabbatical, whichever comes first).

I was able to get the ball rolling, but not necessarily for the Phoenix area. We enjoyed drinking beer and watching football at Spirit’s and had a good day in the Valley of the Sun.

November 15th

Carolina’s Notes
I got up later than Tony because I wasn’t sure what we were going to do today so I didn’t rush. My thoughts gravitated toward NO Cable TV to watch NFL. Yes, I have to shamefully admit I was a little depressed. This would have been the perfect opportunity for me to watch NFL while Tony searched for short-term contracts. The Carefree Manor RV Resort Clubhouse just isn’t comfortable enough to watch NFL despite having the big screen TV with Cable TV reception. I’ll deal with my shame and disappointment. I did finally awake, shower and dress while Tony drove around the neighborhood getting familiar with these surroundings.

He got home and then we took off to Starbucks and to shop a little. I wanted to window shop and he was willing. I purchased items that were NOT necessities but I will utilize these items. Thanks Tony for being a good sport! The weather is cool but nice and we plan on bicycling around the campground. We got home so I could complete some computer work and give us a chance to eat lunch at home. The bicycling will come after our lunch has settled a bit. I want, need and miss exercising so a bike ride is just the ticket.

We went for our short bike ride and enjoyed it. When we arrived home Tony wanted to drive through downtown Phoenix to see what it was like. I was glad we did because traffic was light, which gave us a chance to see the buildings instead being focused on city traffic. On the way back to Harry (RV), we stopped and ate pizza; this stop gave me an opportunity to watch some NFL. It just so happened that the game playing was the Arizona Cardinal versus Seattle Seahawks. We got home and relaxed until time for bed.

Tony’s Notes
Today was kind of a laid back day. However, driving into downtown Phoenix was just something I wanted to do to satisfy my need to see more than desert and RV’s, and to get an idea of the business and industry of the area. Now that I need to dedicate more time to searching for short term work, I wanted to get the lay of the land.

We stopped at a place called Barro’s Pizza. It was excellent pie, and we drank water with it. So, that was good being that I was still healing from the margaritas the night before.

November 14th - Apache Junction

Tony’s Notes
I enjoyed the stay at the hotel room the night before, and the big breakfast at Waffle House.
I also was glad to only drive less than twenty miles down the road to the Carefree Manor RV Resort. It was less than sixteen dollars a night. They have a fairly decent Wi-Fi and we have a great view of Superstition Mountains.

We got hooked up and I was able to get some maintenance tasks completed early in the afternoon. The area was a bit foreign to us. We were in the desert, and the entire town seemed to be RV Parks full of seniors from the north coming down here to stay warm for the winter.

We went out and drank margarita’s at a place called Arizona Joe’s, the headed over to a Chili’s and ate some food.

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up late because last night I just couldn’t fall asleep in my room at Days Inn. I was up until 2:00 a.m. I don’t know why. The accommodations were terrific!! I just couldn’t settle down for bed. I’m beginning to wonder if it’s over money or the prospect of traveling home to Michigan in winter inclement weather conditions. My journey through the mountains has been challenging enough without inclement conditions. Anyway, I had no time to waste because check out was at 11:00 a.m. The free breakfast was cancelled out of the morning plans due to time. I felt badly about this fact. There is a Waffle House located next to Days Inn but I really didn’t want to spend money despite my longing to eat at Waffle House. I figured if Days Inn was offering free breakfast then we should partake. Again, I had to get packed, showered, and dressed and time was of the essence. As it was we left the room after 11:00 a.m. but the clerk didn’t remark about tardiness. It was almost 11:30 am and we needed to eat. We did eat at Waffle House and I enjoyed my meal; I hope it doesn’t visit me again as a form of indigestion.

Well we were on the road; we are headed for Carefree Manor RV Resort in Apache Junction, AZ. Apache Junction is approximately thirty miles east of Phoenix. Our campsite has a great view of mountains. It is very overcast and sprinkling on and off. The mountains help the cloudy day. I must say that I am lethargic; I suspect it is because of my getting to bed late and the heavy breakfast. Tony is occupying himself with maintenance on the Gray and Blank Tanks. Carefree Manor RV Resort does not offer Cable TV to short term guests so killing time watching some college football is a bust. I would have liked to have seen some college ball…just wasn’t in the cards. Tony said I could go to clubhouse but it’s not the same as sitting in my Harry. I actually have tasks I’ve wanted to get accomplished and now I should take advantage of this opportunity. I am actually enjoying my mellow CD music in the radio and not having to travel far. I just can’t remember the last time I really didn’t have any commitments and I must say that it feels strange…VERY strange. I’d better get to my busy work. Actually I am going to get laundry done since the weather is cloudy and sprinkling this is the ideal time. I guess the busy work will have to get done later.

Laundry was completed and busy work not. Tony wanted to go out for dinner and cocktails. We had fun then came home and settled down for bed. We had a nice day with each other.

November 13th - Leaving Sedona

Tony’s Notes
Today we had to head south toward Phoenix. I would have liked to explore Sedona a little bit more; however, it was cold at night and raining during the day. I preferred the hot sunny weather down in the Phoenix area.

As we were leaving the Sedona area, we were able to get some really nice snapshots of Sedona Red Rocks at a scenic overlook. We drove through Oak Creek Village making our way to I-17 and South. I was not sure where we would hook up in Phoenix. There were hundreds of RV parks, and many of them accepted the Passport America discount program. However, I found that almost all of them were for people that were 55+ and I am just a couple weeks shy of 49 years old. We had been talking about getting a hotel room for a night to have a chance to do some personal grooming type of things that would be easier in a full sized bathroom versus the motorhome.

So, as we got into Phoenix, we looked through the free travel guide that you pickup at Rest Areas and we found a couple hotels that had discounts. We ended up at a nice clean Days Inn for $50 a night. Considering the RV Park we stayed at in Sedona was $58 per night, the Hotel was cheaper even after taxes. I enjoyed being able to give myself a good haircut and not worry about getting hair all over the motorhome. We had a good travel day, a nice evening, and enjoyed having the amenities. The hotel had plenty of parking, and we were able to park the motorhome and car in an area where I could see it from our third hotel room window.

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up and got showered and dressed right away. I had tasks to accomplish and there was no time to waste. We wound up getting on the road a little later than planned because of a necessary diversion into town. Tony and I found getting around Sedona challenging; stores, restaurants and all businesses are designed to blend into the beautiful landscape. This concept is esthetically pleasing to the eye but murder when you are a visitor trying to find places to park, etc. Once we did what we could we got Harry (RV) and Matt (Malibu) road ready and we were on the road.

On our way out of Sedona, we stopped at a scenic lookout to click some more pictures not taken yesterday because of the Time Share Presentation. I was so glad we stopped because the sun peeked through the clouds to dry some of the precipitation that fell early morning as well as allowed us to sight see and snap really nice pictures. Time waits for no one so we had to get moving.

This travel day was shaping up to be all right through the mountains. I was sitting at the kitchen table, which does help with my nerves through the mountains. I was so much at ease that Tony and I actually carried on a conversation. When we are traveling through mountains I usually want quiet. I was glad that I was at ease. The one task not completed in Sedona still needed accomplishing. We went from US Post Office to US Post Office but the lines were too long and not enough clerks to wait on customers. Tony finally used the self-serve register at the last one. I must say it made me do some philosophical thinking; I wondered if the universe, as I know it, is becoming all self-serve. I started to think about how there is a lack of customer service everywhere. I’ve noticed the customer service void at almost every store, restaurant, etc. that I visited across our journeys. Is it easier to talk to a machine than to a person? Is it just preferred…perhaps? Now there are times when I like the extra attention and other times when I do enjoy the self-checkout registers. I just was surprised that three US Post Offices didn’t have enough clerks considering that the US Unemployment Rate is very high. There must be folks that just might be willing and want a chance to provide Customer Service to me. I just thought that it would have been nice to start my day with a friendly clerk helping me complete my task instead of an open-ended task that took almost all afternoon to complete. I am grateful that the task is done and I am hopeful that the item will arrive intact.

Anyway, we eventually settled in Mesa, AZ near Phoenix at Days Inn. I’ve wanted to take a bath for a couple of weeks and Tony figured this would be a good time to take advantage. The local RV accommodations we investigated didn’t suit. We decided to just get a room and give ourselves some TLC that we’ve been missing aka creature comforts in Sally (house in MI). We finally got to the room after the mail task and dinner to relax and soak in a bath. We enjoyed the night stay and I was grateful that everything worked well.

November 12th - Sedona, Arizona

Tony’s Notes
We have two nights at Rancho Sedona RV Resort, last night and tonight. So, we actually only had one full day to check out Sedona. We were not really showered and dressed and ready to leave the RV until almost 11am. Once in town, I had wanted to checkout this one coffee bakery café to both eat something, and see if they had a decent Wi-Fi connection.

While walking through town, some young lady pulled me into what looked like a visitor center to tell me about a few places to visit. While showing us a map of places to go she said she could give us $100 cash to spend. So, I knew she wanted us to sit through a 90 minute timeshare presentation. However, I really did not have the time to give to something that I knew for sure I had no intention of buying.

The thought of an extra bit of cash was tempting, so we went ahead and scheduled time to sit through the resorts sales pitch. We did stop at the bakery, but their Wi-Fi was down, so we had coffee and a bagel, and headed to the library to get caught up on a few tasks. Then, we headed over to Sedona Pines Resort.

The presentation ended up taking 3 hours. This was because we talked too much at the beginning. Also, because I asked too many questions and had them thinking I was ready to buy. The thing about these sales pitches is that they tell you they are different and won’t do a hard sell, but in the end it really is a hard sell impulse buy scenario. What always bothers me about this type of presentation is that the woman presenting, when she was finally ready to show us pricing, showed us a package that had an initial cost of $23,000 dollars. Then, when she could see we had no interest, she asked some senior sales guy what else was available. Before you know it he has the same basic deal but for ONLY $9,565. After telling us all of the extra deals he would throw in if we bought today, we said we needed to chat for a minute. Carolina and I quickly looked at each other and said to ourselves, that there is no way we are signing up. After we told them we were not interested, we had to complete a quick survey before getting our $100. Then, while waiting to complete the last little survey, they came over and asked if they could make the price $8,400, would it make a difference. We said no, and let them know we were done and ready to go. I would have liked to let them no it only made turning down the offer easy because if they could have sold it for $8,400 then they should have offered that deal first. But Whatever…. We got our $100 in Cash and left.

I was glad to get the cash, but my three hours of time alone is worth more than $100. So, I was happy and pissed off at the same time.

We had just enough time to drive up to the Sedona Airport Mesa and check out the panoramic view of the Red Rocks and the Sedona area. The views here are breathtaking. We took several pictures and watched the sunset. Although, it was a very cloudy, windy, and cold day, the colors we lit up the sky after the sun had set.

Ideally, we could stay in this area a couple more days and do some hiking up into the mountains; however, the weather forecast is looking like it will get colder, rainy, and icy over the next couple of days. So, we will head south in the morning. We will get back to the Valley of the Sun; Phoenix, AZ. I am looking forward to Sun and Heat. Over the next five days, I will need to dedicate my time to looking for short term contract work. A nice Healthcare IT project that would last six months in Phoenix would be awesome. That way, next spring, we could continue our journey and maybe head up to southern Utah to check out Bryce Canyon, Arches, and Zion National Parks. Of course, we are also prepared to get back to Michigan in a month and get ready for another Michigan winter.

All in all, Sedona, Arizona is a beautiful place to visit and I would come back again; I just won’t sit through a Timeshare sales pitch next time.

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up and got showered and dressed; I have to admit that I woke up lazy. I’m not sure why but I finally got myself together. Then we were off into downtown. Tony wanted to find a stronger Internet connection because our connection at Rancho Sedona RV Park isn’t strong enough for all of our uses. The task of trying to find parking has been challenging; I must say that it has been frustrating finding places in Sedona. When we pulled into town with Harry I thought parking difficulty was just because we were in Harry but the town just isn’t tourist friendly. While touring downtown, Tony was grabbed into a visitor’s center or store to help tourists. Well, we were enticed to listen to a ninety-minute presentation on Time Shares that proved to take up our whole day. The only benefit in spending this time was that we were reimbursed one hundred dollars in cash. We also managed to get to the local library to get our necessary tasks completed; we first went to the library then to the presentation. Despite spending almost three hours listening to the hard sell pitch, Tony was able to sightsee at sunset at his point of interest. Tony clicked several shots and enjoyed his view. The guide at the point of interest directed us to his favorite restaurant (Judi’s); it was a big hit! Judi’s made my visit to Sedona worth the trip.

We made our way home and finished what computer work we could. Then we enjoyed the rest of the evening. I want to try to get some rest because tomorrow is a travel day. Traveling tomorrow could prove to be challenging.

November 11th - Wupatki National Monument and Sunset Crater Volcano National Monument

Tony’s Notes
We were up before dawn, and threw on clothes, hopped on the 5:15am shuttle, and made it out to Yaki Point to watch sunrise. It was cloudy, and there was a haze across the canyon during sunrise. However, it was enjoyable. We did see, very up close and personal, a Big Horn Sheep. It was grazing right next to us, as if we were not there. We always see more wildlife early in the morning, or at dusk in the evening.

Once we packed up and exited the campground, we drove along the Desert View Road toward the East Entrance/Exit. We had entered through the South Entrance, but wanted to take the East exit in order to go to Wupatki National Monument and Sunset Crater Volcano National Monument. These were great stops.

We were able to tour through some ancient Indian settlements that were well over 800 years old. We had a great view of Sunset Crater Volcano and the Lava flows in the area.

Once we headed out toward Sedona, we had to drive through downtown Flagstaff to get to highway 89A South. We had a decent into the Oak Creek Canyon that was a little white knuckle driving. However, I had Carolina sit in back with her head phones on and the shades pulled. This made it much easier on me making this spiral decent into the canyon while pulling fifty-three feet of vehicle behind me. The red rocks of the Sedona area are very beautiful. I couldn’t look around too much because the roads were quite narrow and I didn’t want to accidently drive off the edge.

We made it into downtown Sedona with about 45 minutes of daylight. The nearest RV Park according to our booklet was very close, but our GPS said it was 36 miles away. So, I called them and found out that they were close enough to throw a rock and hit us. So, we got hooked up before nightfall and I am a happy camper to have a couple days in Sedona, Arizona.



Carolina’s Notes
We plan on watching sunrise so we have NO time to waste showering. We got up before sunrise and caught the shuttle to Yaki Point. The sunrise wasn’t clear because of clouds cover. Tony took several pictures and they are beautiful despite the clouds. We didn’t spend much time at Yaki Point because we wanted to get to our next destination before nightfall. We arrived back at camp and ate breakfast, packed and hit the road.

We toured the rest of the South Rim of Grand Canyon on our way out of the park. We stopped at Grandview Point and Desert View and I was glad we did. I was still recuperating from my meltdown but I saw views that I’ll never forget. Then it was onward to Sedona, AZ. We planned on making time to tour Wupatki National Monument and Sunset Crater Volcano National Monument. The stops were enjoyable but I did have some difficulty getting through the pass of Sunset Crater Volcano. I avoided a meltdown but I was unnerved. I still had more miles to keep it together. Anyway we finished the pit stops and we went onward to Sedona, AZ.

Traveling to Sedona, AZ was VERY challenging but I made it…yahoo!! We found accommodations at Rancho Sedona RV Park and boy I was glad to be stopped!! Tony was tempted to go out on the town but I told him that I wasn’t up for it. He fixed cocktails and dinner and we enjoyed the evening. I told Tony that I appreciated him getting me here and that he did a GREAT job driving. I had a fabulous day today!!

November 10th - Grand Canyon National Park

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up and got showered and dressed. I like being able to shower in my facilities but there are challenges. The RV’s bathroom isn’t a full size bathroom but I’m glad I have it. Anyway while I was struggling to get myself ready to get moving to The Grand Canyon National Park, Tony was unhooking the RV and preparing breakfast as well as lunch for the journey to The Grand Canyon National Park. The ride there was nice. We got to Trailer Village campground that is located in The Grand Canyon National Park and we wasted no time with hooking up. Tony interviewed the ranger checking him in on what sights to see. Tony received great information. Despite my challenges getting ready, I was so excited because the plans made sounded great and I was ready for fun.

We took the free shuttle to most of the South Rim’s hot spots. There are three main routes; they are Hermits Rest Route; Village Route; and Kaibab Trail Route. There is quiet a lot of ground to cover in these areas and we did what we could to see all the best attractions. Some of the highlights visited were Yaki Point, Pipe Creek Vista, Mather Point, Canyon View Information Plaza, Yavapai Observation Station, Mather Amphitheater, Hopi Point, Mohave Point, and Pima Point. I’m unsure if I named all the spots.

I was doing well most of the day. Seriously, I was so proud of myself soaking in the sights. I had times when my heart would race because of the trails (I just had to keep a fair distance from the rails) and Tony’s need to want to rock climb today. Yes call me Mrs. Kiljoy but I don’t know how to drive the RV and I don’t want anything to happen to Tony. I was staying in my comfort areas but we wanted to get a lot of exercise. There was a point when we were going from Village Route to Hermits Rest Route where my system went into overload. Yeap, Defcon 5 was happening. I was crying and Tony was doing what he knew what to do to get me to the next bus station so we could shuttle. Well needless to say, things were tense from that point going forward. Despite the meltdown, we got to see sunset where Tony had planned. We finished our tour and shuttled back to the campground. I was still feeling lousy from the tension after the meltdown. Tony was hoping that I could just put it behind us. After some more words, Tony and I decided to just try to relax the rest of the evening. We plan on watching sunrise tomorrow so we need a good night’s rest.

As I reflect on my meltdown, I feel TOTAL regret that I didn’t know what was approaching for me between routes. I’m starting to wonder if I’ll ever lick this fear. I hate yes HATE that this has a hold over me. I could have hiked that trail had it been wider like the other ones traveled. The trail I freaked on had a steep incline but not any steeper than when I use a treadmill to exercise. It’s not just that; it is also the shame I feel when Tony has to say, “Please stop crying people are coming and you don’t want them to hear you.” The way Tony handled the situation today made me feel like he has been numbed to my panic attacks; along with having a knowing that I am actually WEAKENED by these experiences. It cuts right down to heart and soul of me. Not to mention the panic only promotes tension between Tony and me. Right now, I just want to do a shot of Jack Daniels and go to bed and cry myself to sleep. I’ve traveled through eleven states on this trip and I panicked today like in the Badlands. I felt good most of the journey through The Grand Canyon National Park only to get beat by one short narrow trail. I am just feeling very low. I’ve always considered myself to be a strong person but when I panic then I feel weak. It has been a hard pill to swallow. I’ll end this day saying my prayers tonight that God will give me the strength to overcome.

Tony’s Notes
Despite Carolina’s meltdown on the Rim Trail, we really did have an awesome day. The Grand Canyon was quite spectacular. It is great having a campsite right in the park. The shuttle service picks us up within 100 feet of our RV and takes us all along the South Rim.

We hiked at least eight of the twelve mile trail. We wanted to get to one end of the trail to watch the sunset. It truly was spectacular. If we could get a decent internet connection, we would upload a whole bunch of pictures. At every RV Park we travel, they almost all have free Wi-Fi. However, in most cases the Wi-Fi signal is weak or is monitored and manages how much bandwidth you can use. Usually it is a challenge checking emails, and even worse trying to post anything on Facebook or uploading images to our Blog. This is why we always seem to spend some of our days sitting in a public library somewhere, or a coffee shop, where we can get a better connection. It gets to be a bit frustrating because they offer the service; therefore, I feel it is something I am paying for as part of my RV hookup nightly fee. Our current average in the past 78 days has been $30 per night. This average includes a night in a hotel for $132; however, some RV Parks have been close to $60 per night, and those are the ones that sometimes have the least service.

My cell phone service is through Verizon. I probably should have bought one of their ‘Wi-Fi Anywhere’ services or an air card to use for our internet connectivity on the road. If we are to find short term income on the road, we need this connectivity.

Anyway, the Grand Canyon was fantastic. One day, I would like to return and hike to the river, camp a night, and hike back up the next day. I will not be able to do this with Carolina, but it is something I will need to do for myself.

We had a great day, and we also have a nice evening meal. We cooked all of our own food and went one whole day without spending any cash; that was a first.

November 9th

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up and washed my face and brushed my teeth; I didn’t feel like showering. We were only staying overnight and the thought of unpacking toiletries and packing up again right away didn’t inspire. Tony researched some of the paths to and from The Grand Canyon National Park. Then we had to pay for our night stay and get breakfast and get out on the road for the two hundred mile journey.

This travel day was a good travel day. I was able to sit in the passenger seat and enjoy the ride. I had a couple areas that had my heart going but I just looked at the breathtaking views and said that I was in God’s hands and I was calm. We tried to bunk in Flagstaff, AZ but there wasn’t any place suitable. It was getting dark and I was ready to stop. Tony asked me to be patient and he’d find us a place. I wasn’t ready to continue driving in the dark but with Tony’s tutelage we found a campground. We bunked at The Flintstones Campground in Williams, AZ; its decor is just like the cartoon. I must say that I thought it was quaint. We only have electricity and I feel that not showering this morning may backfire. I use lots of water to shampoo my hair and my hair needs washing. Honestly, I’ll have to solve that tomorrow. For now, I need to relax. Tony and I plan on staying home and getting to bed early. We want to get up early to get to The Grand Canyon National Park early. We are approximately 30 miles away.

I am happy things worked well today. I end my day grateful for all that I have.

Tony’s Notes
We drove through the Phoenix area today. It was very hot and sunny in Phoenix. As we headed up I-17 toward Flagstaff, we quickly climbed to about a 7,400 feet elevation. Once up in elevation, it was amazing to watch the cactus get replaced by pine trees, and such. The temperature dropped dramatically. We end up, like Carolina stated, about 30 miles from the Grand Canyon National Park. We stayed one night at the Flintstone Village Campground; this was an older campground that did not seem very well maintained. However, it was perfect to have a place to park for the night. We had to run the furnace, but was nice to fix our food, and relax.

November 8th - Travel Day to Arizona

I woke up and got ready for one more soak in the hot tub. We decided to soak at the other side just to see how those pools and hot tubs compare. We were sorrowful that we didn’t just go to the pools and tubs that we’d been enjoying all week. Anyway, we did get to soak, shower, wash clothes and get packed up for the day of traveling. Tony took the brunt of unhooking the site; he really is a trooper!

Well on the road again, I decided to sit in the passenger’s chair since I wanted to be a little more comfortable. I figure if I have to move to the kitchen then I will. I enjoyed this travel day VERY much! I was able to see beautiful mountains without the up and down along with the side to side. I was a happy camper!!

Tony decided to hang our hat at Saddle Mountain RV Resort in Tonopah, AZ. It is a nice place but only an overnight stop because Tony wants to go to the Grand Canyon. Tony was craving a burger and a beer because he’d been thinking about our local watering hole, Little Tony’s. Well we found Tin Top Bar & Grill and enjoyed the evening. We were glad that the bar was close. I was able to watch some football, which is always a plus. The RV park didn’t offer cable TV and the converter box doesn’t always find channels. We arrived home and relaxed until bed. I had a GREAT travel day…YAHOO!!

November 7th

Carolina’s Notes
I woke up and had to get ready for my 10:00 a.m. appointment. I was grateful for Tony’s people skills because he entertained my guest until I was able to dress. I was experiencing a wardrobe malfunction and I was quite embarrassed. Tony was great because he had no idea what was happening behind closed doors. He may have been wondering what in the H - - L I was doing. I finally came to a solution and entered the room and continued with my appointment. I enjoyed the time I spent with our neighbors here at Sky Valley RV Resort. We all visited and the time passed so quickly that once we looked at the time hours had passed. Lord knows that sometimes when I start talking I can go for hours. I thoroughly enjoyed my neighbor’s company. It was time well spent!

Once we said our good byes, Tony & I wanted to see downtown Palm Springs. We grabbed a bite to eat at the restaurant at Sky Valley RV Resort. We figured it could potentially save us money while in downtown. We arrived in downtown and walked the streets. We soaked in all the activity. Some of this activity is out the norm of Michigan life so we just observed and noted the differences. We did stop and tried some French Truffles (chocolate) then another stop was for espresso. We came upon Hollywood Walk of Fame Stars, a museum, and several shops. All the time we spent soaking in the local atmosphere. This isn’t downtown Detroit!

I was ready to get home. Tony and I were tempted to stay and have cocktails but I convinced Tony that we could pick up some items and enjoy being home. He mulled it over and then agreed. We had some tasks that he wanted to complete. We were able to get some of the tasks done before venturing home. Our day was fun! We arrived home and Tony prepared our cocktails and dinner while I completed some packing and computer tasks. The rest of the night I spent relaxing until it was time for bed. It was a GREAT day!

Tony’s Notes
It truly was another great day at Sky Valley RV Resort. I enjoyed walking through downtown Palm Springs. It was a little strange for me, because there were quite a few men walking around holding hands. I just was not used to seeing guys walking around holding hands. Later in the day, I found out that this particular weekend was the annual gay and lesbian pride festival. For me, it was just a bit strange. However, everyone was friendly, and Carolina and I enjoyed walking around town. I was glad we came home and had our own food. While in town we had walked through a couple small museums. One of them was full of very old general store type of items. While there I saw an old tin of Watkins Cinnamon, and Watkins Nutmeg. I also saw an old tin of Watkins Menthol Camphor Ointment. What is cool about that is that I sell Watkins products, and the tins at this museum were at least eighty years old. Being a Watkins Associate has been a good side business for building a good recurring income, and Watkins has been around since 1868.

I love this geographic location, and will definitely come back here one day to avoid a Michigan winter. I also thoroughly enjoyed talking with our new friends (and Carolina’s new Mary Kay customer). They gave us a couple of their CD’s and we have been enjoying listening to their music and message.

November 6th

Carolina’s Notes
We woke up and started calking. Once the calking was done, we soaked in the hot tub then showered and dressed. Our mail arrived so Tony wanted to pay bills. I put together a Mary Kay Cosmetic order for my neighbor in Sky Valley Resort. I didn’t want to wait until the last minute so I am ready for my 10:00 a.m. appointment tomorrow. I love selling Mary Kay Cosmetics! It has given me an avenue to meet wonderful people that I would normally not know. I am happy to report that Tony & I ate breakfast and lunch at home. We are trying to exercise and eat right despite ourselves.

Once our tasks were completed we had to mail our bills. We went to the US Post Office to make sure the bills would go out quickly. We also visited the library to update our blog and Facebook. Tony is also hunting for work. I had a chance to chat with my mother while out and about. She wants me to come back to Michigan. Mom told me that she has appreciated EVERYTHING my daughter has done for her every time we talk. I can tell in my mom’s voice that she just wants her daughter home; my mom has never said to come home to me. I must admit I wasn’t sure how to process this information. My mom and I haven’t had a ‘traditional’ mother-daughter relationship. We bicker all the time and there has only been a few times in my life that she has told me that she loves me. My mom is eccentric and has been almost as long as I have lived. My mom has many admirable qualities that get overlooked because of her eccentricity. I know for better or for worse she is my mom and I am her daughter. My mom wants me HOME! I have always told my mom the way I know it. I told her honestly that Tony is trying to find work and if he needs to get to an interview outside of Michigan that he’d like to be close. Mom hasn’t asked about the nuts and bolts of his job search. I did tell her before I left that many of the jobs that Tony qualifies to do is in other states. She is also aware the one opportunity in the Grand Rapids, MI area didn’t offer him the open position. Mom just sends Tony and me her love, prayers and support and she adds to pray to God for the answers that we search. This is the advice that I’ve always taken from my mom. I have invited God to accompany Tony and me on this sabbatical and despite our bickering we say our prayers and believe in God’s Will. Yes mom is eccentric but she makes sense many times whether I can absorb it at the time or not.

In the meantime, I am going to complete my computer tasks and enjoy my husband’s company and evening. We stopped and had pizza and wine at Papa Dan’s. It was fun! We arrived home then relaxed until it was time for bed. It was a nice day!

Tony’s Notes
We had another great day relaxing in this wonderful desert resort. We completed the most important areas needing to be calked. I was not able to get 100% of the RV calked on the outside, but the important areas were done, and I have no plans to do anymore calking this week.

Tomorrow will be our last day here before heading for Arizona. We plan to head into old downtown Palm Springs and check out the area.

Our neighbors here at Sky Valley RV Resort are here until April. They are from Canada. They just recently became empty nesters, like Carolina and I. They are our age and have made a living as country Christian singers. There names are Trevor and Jennifer Baker, and they drive a MCI 1965 bus that was converted into a motorhome. They have quite a nice coach. Carolina will meet with Jennifer tomorrow morning to discuss Mary Kay products. I needed to pull Carolina’s inventory out, so that she could check and make sure she had the products in stock for Jennifer.

I did enjoy getting into town today, but was not very motivated to job search. Now that it is getting dark by 5:30pm, I feel tired earlier, or at least it feels later than what it actually is. We enjoyed pizza, spaghetti, and red wine at Papa Dan’s. This was our second time this week that we ate pizza, and drank wine out for an evening. However, we were good and got home early, and had a good night sleep.