Carolina’s Notes
I got up late and slow because I had too much fun yesterday and last night. I just threw on clothes in hopes of swimming in the pool later. Tony & I decided to stay one more day in Paso Robles so we can experience some of the amenities at Wine Country RV Resort. They have a pool and Jacuzzi. The sun is shining so that is reason enough to stay. We have WiFi here so I spent lots of time catching up on my notes and computer work. We ate breakfast at home. We need to eat at home because with all the amenities from yesterday it was a heavy wallet day. I figure if Tony is going to be working soon then he’ll have these memories to fuel his long hour days. We’ll enjoy the spa facilities here and enjoy the sun.
Well we spent too much time with computer work and daylight was fading fast. I realized that I left my sunglasses at Falcon Nest after searching and calling Falcon Nest. We dashed right over to claim my lost item. Since we were back in wine tasting country we decided to continue our tour. Today the stops consisted of the recommended places on our ad card from Wine Country RV Resort. We visited Pear Valley Winery, Penman Springs and Clautiere Vineyard. Each was special in its own unique way. On the way home to Harry, I wanted to stop at Rite Aid to fill my prescription wanting to kill two birds with one stone and we were in the neighborhood. Tony agreed but in hindsight we should have continued with the romantic evening. Well tension arose when Tony made a left hand turn on a red arrow that just turned red; we were lucky that the police office in close proximity didn’t issue us a ticket especially after tasting wine. Tony was shaken by it and I thought he was mad because I wanted to divert to accomplish my task. I was sorrowful for the trip because Rite Aid was too busy to fill the prescription immediately and I wasn’t going to wait. The only upside to this is that tomorrow I won’t have to wait. We were fighting daylight because the goal was always to play in pool and hot tub. Needless to say despite bickering we both calmed down and went on with the nice evening. We quickly changed into our swim suits and dashed to the Adult Spa Area at Wine Country RV Resort. We had the place to our selves as the sun went to bed and the moon came shining. I apologized once again to Tony and it was nice soaking in the hot tub. For some of the visitors to our blog (aka readers) of my note, please be advised that married life can be strange at times. The things both husbands and wives deal with that they thought that they never would becomes the stuff dealt with a lot. Just remember the old saying…never say never. There is such truth to the two become one. Sometimes the traits you fell in love with are the very traits that make you want to strangle the one you love. I won’t because I wouldn’t last a day in prison. Anyway, marriage is a constant project that needs attention and work otherwise the marriage could wind up in trouble or dissolving. Again I thought a lot of my worries and concerns would be taken care of once on the road; boy was I mistaken. My fight against the heights was just the beginning. I have a lot of work to do for me so I can get healthy again in mind, body and spirit. Each bickering session I have with Tony takes its toll on me. My stomach feels it first; my stomach immediately feels in turmoil. In my past, continuous stomach turmoil caused my stomach to bleed. I, in a joking way, said to many family members and friends that I hope Tony doesn’t throw me out of the RV. It is ironic that maybe I knew that there might be truth to that statement. Anyway, we are going to continue with our romantic evening despite the trip to Rite Aid.
Tony made a terrific dinner plus did all the dishes. I thanked him sincerely and told him how lucky I am to have him doing all the things he does. I realize many wives would just love if their husband would pick up their dishes from the other room. I try very hard to thank Tony repeatedly so he doesn’t feel taken for granted. The rest of the night I plan on relaxing in Harry.
Tony’s Notes
We got up late and we were hurting a bit from our over indulgence. I was totally surprised with myself that I ended up out tasting more wine again today. We bought several different types of wine. I bought a dessert wine and a port. However, the best winery and wine was still Francesco’s Merlot at Falcon Nest.
We had a good day despite any tension. It was hard though. For some reason, Carolina’s anger flares up far too often. I struggle with this because I find it to be extremely unhealthy for the both of us. I desire fitness and health. I also desire living a long healthy life together. I do not want to die at a young age because of stress, tension, or just through an accident caused from tense distractions. Wayne Dyer has commented in his books about not dying with your music still in you. I feel I still have a lot of music still in me.
We had a nice day, and after dinner, and after I finished the dishes, Carolina was engrossed in the computer, so I took a short five minute walk. When I returned, I found the lights off, and the door locked. She was angry that I left and did not tell her I was going somewhere. She felt that I should have said I was going for walk or asked her to go. She seemed to think I was trying to get away from her and she said that if I wanted time alone, I should have told her. I was really frustrated and confused, because I just went for a short walk and truly thought nothing of it. The resort we were staying at had a huge hot tub at the top of a hill, with a waterfall and fire pit. I wanted to walk over and see if they had lit a fire in the pit. I thought it would be nice to sit in the hot tub, listen to the waterfall, and get mesmerized by the fire while looking up at the stars. However, when I got there, there was no fire lit and the hot tub was full of men in there 70’s and 80’s. I went back home, but did not expect to find Carolina angry, again.
I do not think that either of us slept very well that night because we both went to bed angry with each other and very unsure about our future together. It is amazing that one day can be absolute bliss and the next go so badly.
Anyway, if anyone is reading the notes in this blog, if you are reading this one for October 26th, be sure to also read October 25th for some balance.
I got up late and slow because I had too much fun yesterday and last night. I just threw on clothes in hopes of swimming in the pool later. Tony & I decided to stay one more day in Paso Robles so we can experience some of the amenities at Wine Country RV Resort. They have a pool and Jacuzzi. The sun is shining so that is reason enough to stay. We have WiFi here so I spent lots of time catching up on my notes and computer work. We ate breakfast at home. We need to eat at home because with all the amenities from yesterday it was a heavy wallet day. I figure if Tony is going to be working soon then he’ll have these memories to fuel his long hour days. We’ll enjoy the spa facilities here and enjoy the sun.
Well we spent too much time with computer work and daylight was fading fast. I realized that I left my sunglasses at Falcon Nest after searching and calling Falcon Nest. We dashed right over to claim my lost item. Since we were back in wine tasting country we decided to continue our tour. Today the stops consisted of the recommended places on our ad card from Wine Country RV Resort. We visited Pear Valley Winery, Penman Springs and Clautiere Vineyard. Each was special in its own unique way. On the way home to Harry, I wanted to stop at Rite Aid to fill my prescription wanting to kill two birds with one stone and we were in the neighborhood. Tony agreed but in hindsight we should have continued with the romantic evening. Well tension arose when Tony made a left hand turn on a red arrow that just turned red; we were lucky that the police office in close proximity didn’t issue us a ticket especially after tasting wine. Tony was shaken by it and I thought he was mad because I wanted to divert to accomplish my task. I was sorrowful for the trip because Rite Aid was too busy to fill the prescription immediately and I wasn’t going to wait. The only upside to this is that tomorrow I won’t have to wait. We were fighting daylight because the goal was always to play in pool and hot tub. Needless to say despite bickering we both calmed down and went on with the nice evening. We quickly changed into our swim suits and dashed to the Adult Spa Area at Wine Country RV Resort. We had the place to our selves as the sun went to bed and the moon came shining. I apologized once again to Tony and it was nice soaking in the hot tub. For some of the visitors to our blog (aka readers) of my note, please be advised that married life can be strange at times. The things both husbands and wives deal with that they thought that they never would becomes the stuff dealt with a lot. Just remember the old saying…never say never. There is such truth to the two become one. Sometimes the traits you fell in love with are the very traits that make you want to strangle the one you love. I won’t because I wouldn’t last a day in prison. Anyway, marriage is a constant project that needs attention and work otherwise the marriage could wind up in trouble or dissolving. Again I thought a lot of my worries and concerns would be taken care of once on the road; boy was I mistaken. My fight against the heights was just the beginning. I have a lot of work to do for me so I can get healthy again in mind, body and spirit. Each bickering session I have with Tony takes its toll on me. My stomach feels it first; my stomach immediately feels in turmoil. In my past, continuous stomach turmoil caused my stomach to bleed. I, in a joking way, said to many family members and friends that I hope Tony doesn’t throw me out of the RV. It is ironic that maybe I knew that there might be truth to that statement. Anyway, we are going to continue with our romantic evening despite the trip to Rite Aid.
Tony made a terrific dinner plus did all the dishes. I thanked him sincerely and told him how lucky I am to have him doing all the things he does. I realize many wives would just love if their husband would pick up their dishes from the other room. I try very hard to thank Tony repeatedly so he doesn’t feel taken for granted. The rest of the night I plan on relaxing in Harry.
Tony’s Notes
We got up late and we were hurting a bit from our over indulgence. I was totally surprised with myself that I ended up out tasting more wine again today. We bought several different types of wine. I bought a dessert wine and a port. However, the best winery and wine was still Francesco’s Merlot at Falcon Nest.
We had a good day despite any tension. It was hard though. For some reason, Carolina’s anger flares up far too often. I struggle with this because I find it to be extremely unhealthy for the both of us. I desire fitness and health. I also desire living a long healthy life together. I do not want to die at a young age because of stress, tension, or just through an accident caused from tense distractions. Wayne Dyer has commented in his books about not dying with your music still in you. I feel I still have a lot of music still in me.
We had a nice day, and after dinner, and after I finished the dishes, Carolina was engrossed in the computer, so I took a short five minute walk. When I returned, I found the lights off, and the door locked. She was angry that I left and did not tell her I was going somewhere. She felt that I should have said I was going for walk or asked her to go. She seemed to think I was trying to get away from her and she said that if I wanted time alone, I should have told her. I was really frustrated and confused, because I just went for a short walk and truly thought nothing of it. The resort we were staying at had a huge hot tub at the top of a hill, with a waterfall and fire pit. I wanted to walk over and see if they had lit a fire in the pit. I thought it would be nice to sit in the hot tub, listen to the waterfall, and get mesmerized by the fire while looking up at the stars. However, when I got there, there was no fire lit and the hot tub was full of men in there 70’s and 80’s. I went back home, but did not expect to find Carolina angry, again.
I do not think that either of us slept very well that night because we both went to bed angry with each other and very unsure about our future together. It is amazing that one day can be absolute bliss and the next go so badly.
Anyway, if anyone is reading the notes in this blog, if you are reading this one for October 26th, be sure to also read October 25th for some balance.
No comments:
Post a Comment